If the ignoring turns to bullying, then inform your teacher, counselor, parents or any other trusted person who can help you. Giving her some space and not pestering her by double texting could help you deal with this situation. Swallowing your pride and offering a sincere apology goes a long way. We both like and dislike our toxic friends. 1) You aren't trying hard enough to woo her Maybe you just aren't doing enough. Or when you pluck up enough courage to ask her to talk, she ghosts you? 1. If she started ignoring you after you suggested making your relationship official, you probably asked too soon. Maybe you don't stare back at them. She is ignoring you because you waited too long before asking her out. She did like you at one point in time but does not feel the same for you anymore. Reflect on your previous interactions and see if any situations come to mind in which there may have been tension between you and your friend. You don't equally share details about your life with each other. For example, if you had stated that your friend's job was stupid and that you'd never work there in a million years, don't just say "I'm sorry that you were offended by my comments about your work." ", away. So, to ensure youre not a hit it and quit it kind of guy, girls will play hard to get to see what youre willing to do to get with her. Perhaps she has met someone more interesting and prefers talking to them instead of you. That could be why she hasnt yet flirted with you as much: shes still trying to figure out her own feelings. It took you a long time to make a move. Control issues are a red flag for people that you should generally avoid in any part of your life. //