Your email address will not be published. Will this ever end!?!?? Conversely, he denies my physical needs. Its surprising how much love I have for him but it all seems so complicated in his head/heart that I choose not to act on my feelings and just let time do its job. We had an affair that was hidden, even though I would have given everything to be with him full time. So, you can imagine what kind of connection this still is. game vault 999 login; extreme double anal; asian school girl porn; karma x nagisa story; jamf enable screen sharing; myq device is currently not in provisioning mode I wouldnt say its a bad experience but Id personally avoid 12th house placements. we are creepy to them, but cant seem to let us go. didnt dream of them either. You can be very supportive and will enjoy much of your time alone together away from it all. The 12th house belongs to the triangle of salvation or Moksha Trikona while Venus is a very spiritual planet. Lol. Sorry, Mr. Gemini . It's strange that i always dream about him. The general claim is that it disturbs the person whose twelfth house is activated. Venus the Goddess of love represents our love nature, our desires, our desire for the good things in life, our style, the way we act to attract, what we attract along with what we value and what we have or want. How would Saturn and Mars play out in 12the in synastry?? I know the Pluto-Moon opposition would usually involve some obsession but not sure about the Pluto-Saturn conjunct opposing moon. This is a really good match because it brings together romantic partners with similar ideas about how to approach life. Sounds karmic or so I think. Mine lasted for nearly 3 years amid a ton of torment, aching for his love, trying to understand the hostility, the mental/spiritual abuse, trying to help him .. all SORTS of goodies/1 In the end, it was me that jumped ship; who needs that kind of nonsense in ones life? Venus in your Partners 12th house The Venus person will be highly complimentative with the house person which will help increase their overall self-confidence. But I still hope. Most sources will tell you that the twelfth house overlay is not good for relationships. You will find yourself smitten to this house person. His venus in your 12th, according to what I know, probably means that you're attracted because he brings out hidden parts of you. If he truely loves you, he will sooner or later find his way back to you. From there on, things never became the same anymore. Thats an aspect of a battle between the Mars person & the 12th house person. I recent discover my crush has his Mars in my 12th conjunct my Ascendant. =). I only noticed it after my 12th-Houser came into my life and affected me deeply that is when my own natal Gemini placement came out in me full and strong. He told you that he is not in love with you. I can relate to almost all you've been saying. I am an independent person and this is killing me emotionally, physically and psychologically! Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a. The 12th house is mysterious, magical, elusive, highlypsychic, spiritual, and the most interesting thing about it in synastry is that relationships with planets here tend to function mostly on a unconscious level, and even a whole other world entirely. Lesson learned: let the men pick ME instead of the other way around. Sign up here! And if they are thus planted in your 12th House, soon the fun begins with you feeling like you were run over by a truck or a fast-moving train. Men take longer to grow up emotionally. For example, my first ex BF married to the woman, who was his course mate. Pluto in your partners 1st This placement can be very powerful between two people that are attracted to each other in a love relat Jupiter in synastry represents where we will inspire, encourage and instill faith in our partners, and even addthem luck. We are obsessed with eachother. I also have my venus on their south node That's exactly what it feels like. And I discovered that I had a stellium of Sun, mars, Mercury and venus in his twelfth house, while his planets sun, moon, venus, mars, jupiter, neptune where all in my seventh house.His AC opposite's my venus.Our Sun Mutually Aspects Pluto aswell as Moon Mutually Aspects Mars. I don't know if I am able to, honestly.This really feels like karmic bond. He inspires it or mirrors it and you feel close to him because of this. (Waving). But I was raised by a Sun/Scorpio mother (with her Moon in Sagittarius) and Virgo ASC. Venus is considered a Benefic, which means that this planet tends to bring good fortune. Maybe its fortuitous that it ended early for you, sweetie. He is not letting me go, he comes into my dreams, only to message me next day.The whole story is like a novel really, with me running after him through half of the world, and yet he never asked anything more of me than comfort. It just went down a long and winding road until it got out of control. The descriptions of 12th house Venus in synastry always ring true for me, but I'm always the house person, so it totally sucks being so affected by someone who hides their feelings. Everything has a timing. Venus in Twelfth House Meaning in Synastry When someone's Venus falls in another person's twelfth house, the planet person acts as a magical entity that activates the house person's imagination and inspires subconscious romantic feelings. In hindsight, I now believe that my 12th Houser is just that. Can someone help shed some light to what it means? I was more into him from the very beginning I went after HIM and found out that he really resented it. Howd you get over him and stop thinking about him? I can definitely feel the effects of his planets in my 12th, but in your experience is the planet person affected? An at one point he came to me, looked me in the eyesand asked me: " do I know you?" Unless he is catering to the spiritual side of you, its just not a good place for Mars to be in. I felt this awful DREAD of him mixed in with the deep love longings that I held in my heart, and would just burst out CRYING whenever I felt his spirit coming near me. I dont know despite how he treats me I just always want to help him and at the time I thought if needing space was what would help him fine but I can never seem to tell him that. We were both unhappily married, I was her manager at work, she was head over heels for me immediately, I didn't even know she liked me for months. The subconscious is full of stuff that we don't even know about, not consciously anyway but our dreams often show us what's in here. You're in love with the "idea" of each other, if that makes any sense. You have to distract yourself in as many ways as possible, do other things, meet other people. Where your Venus falls in your partner's chart shows where you bring these energies into their life. It proves that Venus is created for sharing purity, love, and spirituality in the world, when in a good state. Two years ago I met a man with whom I had a one-night stand, thought of seeing only for that one night at a conference, yet continued to see each other for ten times during these two years. Brrrrrrr . His sun, mercury, Neptune fall in my 8th house. Im afraid he would stifle me and kill my spirit from the inside out. One thing for sure, 12th house relationships are Karmic. He also has this aspect with my daughter too. and NO MORE 12TH HOUSE PARTNERS FOR ME!! Negatively, the planet person can use any of these fears as a way to control them, manipulate them or to use against them in some way. His acts of ghosting you and shutting you down via social media makes me think that he might also be a tad sociopathic thats a common trait. Hi Aida, very interesting what you say.. Well you know, Neptune rules the 12th house, which is idealization, so in a sense these people will appear to be our ideal! Does that sound reasonable with his neptune being in my 12th house? In synastry, composite, transits, solar returns.always the bringing the worst. Yes i do believe it possible to work even if you have not physically met as crazy as that sounds, my experience with this house has shown it to be a very magical house, that has roots in the past. Yes gifts can be found, but contrarily mental illness, sexual issues, drugs and alchohol issues, you name it it's all here too. I'm not all that great with articulating stuff that's not of this world. ), but at the same time on his POSITIVE/GOOD TWIN sign I recognized parts of myself that were. thus I didnt want to be like him. And the worst part is I cant tell if hes going to be my salvation or my greatest self sabotage and final, complete ruination of my life. Absolutely killing me .He was in love then all of a sudden he wasn't and said we couldn't sleep together anymore . This could be the unconditional kind of love people look for, its about whether or not you can handle it. It is spiritual for both people, but sometimes this is why the relationships seem to be so painful if they end. He does remind me of a father figure in a way. A example of how the hidden fears thing of this house works is that we often will have a bad dream about something we are afraid of happening or suppressed anger, and and fear can bring us nightmares. I would love to here anyone's feedback. the assumptions of the worst. Hi, Heather. The 12th house and Neptune can be very painful, the lingering kind. The planet Venus takes its name from the Roman goddess of love, lust, beauty and fertility. I would be very interested as always in hearing about any findings or further experience or information you can conjur up! because it hurts to know this about yourself, or just accept it. This site uses cookies to help personalise content, tailor your experience and to keep you logged in if you register. Required fields are marked *. I have neptune (Sagitarius) in my 7th house with Gemini rising. He understands me in a very deep level. It might be like having an itch you cant scratch. The 12th house is the house of the spirit, it's deep and mysterious, and usually where we find our guides, angels or demons. I can sense when he needs something even when he isn't next to me. Ive cut our contact channels. I made our synastry. I don't mind though. Guess that his Sun/Gem didnt like me pursuing him, but he toyed with me from time to time as he was, natch, curious about how I worked. Hi, 12th house placements are highly impressionable, they stay with you long after because it's a highly idealized house, be careful you can easily fool yourself. The 12th house is highly psychic and deeply spiritual. It is because mars is a harsher planet? Thats so commendable of you to always have a welcome for him in your heart. Lol. The 12th house person can annoy Mars because of the lack of immediate action. Feeling an intense attraction but beyond the physical, even that he was the personification for what I find attractive in the opposite sex. It is strange how much this makes sense: I have my moon in his 12 house and he's got his Neptune in my 12. Sounds like your experience was on the negative side.